Lord, my heart is not haughty, nor my eyes lofty. Neither do I concern myself with great matters, nor with things too profound for me. Surely I have calmed and quieted my soul. Like a weaned child with his mother; like a weaned child is my soul within me. O Israel, hope in the Lord from this time forth and forever.
—Psalm 131
Trusting in the Lord and recognizing that we don’t have to do everything ourselves is incredibly comforting. While there are aspects of our lives that we can control, there are also things that are beyond our control and are under God’s control. It’s wise to discern the difference.
Little children are indifferent to others. They desire what they want when they want it and resort to crying or making a scene to obtain it. However, as they grow older, they gradually gain control over their emotions. David exemplified this in this psalm.
God had Samuel anoint David as King of Israel although Saul was still on the throne. The Spirit of the Lord had left Saul due to his ongoing disobedience to God's commands. Saul refused to relinquish his rule. Without the Spirit of the Lord to guide him, Saul allowed his emotions to have control. In his rage, he tried to kill David again and again. David responded to Saul by fleeing for his life. And when presented with an opportunity to kill Saul, David refused because Saul was still on the throne. David would not take the throne by killing Saul. What incredible emotional maturity on David’s part! We shouldn't be surprised. God was with David, and he knew it. He trusted in the Lord and didn’t try to take the throne until God had taken care of Saul. He exhibited maturity by behaving appropriately and calming himself, which was a clear sign of emotional control.
We don’t have to be as Saul. We can be as David. When our hope and confidence are in the Lord, we act differently. We are able to control ourselves because we don’t take all the responsibility upon ourselves. Our hope is in the Lord.







