When you have lived through a hurt, your natural instinct is to either move on and try to forget it or to harbor it until it ultimately defines your life. God’s instinct is higher than yours. He doesn’t want you to isolate yourself in your pain. He wants to use what you have experienced, not only to heal you, but also for the benefit of others. God wants your willingness to open your life to Him and to those He chooses. You can discover healing from your pain, and He can use you to help others discover healing from theirs.
Being open is a hard place to be. You might want to build a wall to protect yourself. But building a wall doesn't protect you. It imprisons your mind and heart. It imprisons healing of not only your wounds but those of others. Your wall turns your heart into a heart of stone because, in closing yourself off, you are unable to hear the Holy Spirit.
However, when you allow that wall of false protection to tumble down, the Lord turns your pain into victory, not only for yourself, but also for others.
“I'll give you a new heart,” the Lord promises, “and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh” (Ezekiel 36:26).
A heart that yields without hesitation to the Holy Spirit is a heart that is malleable, vulnerable, and not afraid of what must be faced in order to receive healing. It's a heart that is ready to face the hurt of the past or the present head on and allow the Holy Spirit to do whatever is necessary. Willing to deal with whatever must be dealt with, this heart trusts that the Lord who has exposed the pain is capable of healing all that has caused it.
"Now the Lord is the Spirit,” Paul imparts, “and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (2 Corinthians 3:17).
The Holy Spirit liberates you from pain, fear, and the power of feelings to manipulate. He heals the wounds that have imprisoned you. But you must reject the enemy who wants to keep you, bound and chained, in darkness, and, instead, open yourself to the healing work of the Holy Spirit. You must be willing to cooperate with Him.
“For it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure” (Philippians 2:13).
This is His work. Not yours. Your work is your willingness to deal with the pain. He is your protector. You no longer need to protect yourself. He will protect you and provide all that you need. You choose to lower your wall and open yourself to His Word. You choose to receive His truth that sets you free.
“For this reason we also thank God without ceasing, because when you received the word of God which you heard from us, you welcomed it not as the word of men, but as it is in truth, the word of God, which also effectively works in you who believe” (1 Thessalonians 2:13).
Welcome Jesus into your pain. Welcome the Word. Open your mind and your heart to the Holy Spirit. Jesus is your healer. He never fails you. He wants you free. He effectively works in you when you believe Him.
Is it time, my friend?
“Therefore, if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed” (John 8:36).





