A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot.
—Proverbs 14:30 ESV
Envy. Jealousy. Covetousness. It can consume us, stealing the fulfillment that the Holy Spirit imparts and killing the fruit of the spirit. It crucifies our love, robs our joy, and destroys our peace. Whatever patience we may have had vanishes because we are never satisfied. Moreover, whatever kindness and goodness we exemplified disappears because we don’t view others as valuable. We view them as a benchmark for our own lives. Consumed by our desire for more, we lose our self-control, our faithfulness wanes, and our hearts become hardened by constant competition. In the grip of envy, peace is an elusive dream.
Peace is life to us. When our hearts and minds are at peace, we can receive God’s fullness. Our souls find rest, and we no longer strive for more or seek to be the best. We can rejoice with others when they receive blessings. Our hearts are free to love without judgment. We don’t compare because there’s no competition. Without competition and comparison, not only is our soul at peace, but our physical bodies are also not stressed. Peace and joy are found in the Holy Spirit (Romans 14:17). If we are consumed by envy, constantly comparing our lives to others, and feeling inadequate even when we have enough, we will be driven by an insatiable desire for recognition and superiority. This relentless striving and dissatisfaction will consume us like a cancerous growth, corrupting our souls and bodies.
Jesus came to rescue us from destruction. He is the solution to all the ailments of our soul and body (Psalms 107:20). While we may have accepted Him as our Savior, He must also be the Lord of our lives. We must surrender to the Word we have received.
“I fed you with milk, not solid food, for you were not ready for it,” Paul wrote, “and even now you are not yet ready, for you are still of the flesh. For while there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not of the flesh and behaving only in a human way” (1 Corinthians 3:2-3 ESV)?
How immature are we? Do we still need to be treated as spiritual babies requiring milk? When will we grow up and walk by the spirit instead of the flesh? Jealousy not only destroys our spiritual life but also breeds dissension and division. Envy not only hinders God’s ability to work within us but also destroys others. Now is the time to grow up. Instead of allowing envy to crush the Holy Spirit within us, it’s time to crucify envy. If you will walk by the Spirit, you won’t gratify the yearning of the flesh (Galatians 5:16).
If God's love is in you, there’s no room for envy. You know He loves you so you love others. Love is patient, and it’s kind. Love doesn’t envy (1 Corinthians 13:4). It doesn't destroy lives. Love builds. Love creates. Love sees the best. Love doesn’t compare, and it doesn’t compete.
The time for solid food has come. Digest the Word until it talks back to you and you know Jesus as Lord.










