Take the Time

You do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.
—James 4:14

Two weeks ago, I flew to Massachusetts to visit my sister and brother. It was a long overdue visit, and I couldn’t wait to reconnect with them. The trip was filled with long-forgotten memories and brought immense joy as I remembered the times we had shared through the years.

While my sister and I drove from western Massachusetts up into Vermont and New Hampshire, staying in historic inns filled with warm fires, my daughter from Florida spent time with my husband in Alabama. As my sister and I explored charming shops and savored cozy meals together, my daughter and husband spent much-needed time together. The time we all spent with each other was a precious gift, valuable beyond any price.

Spending time with loved ones is an essential aspect of life. It strengthens relationships, creates cherished memories, and fosters a sense of belonging. In our fast-paced lives, it’s imperative to prioritize these precious moments.

“They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts” (Acts 2:46). 

There is something special about breaking bread together. Whether it’s a family meal or a getaway trip with loved ones, spending sincere moments together creates a unique heart connection. Taking time to be with our loved ones reduces stress. Good times spent with those who are integral to our lives “fill us with laughter and songs of joy” (Psalm 126:2). Sincerely connecting with family also gives us a sense of purpose and meaning in life.

It’s easy to get caught up in our responsibilities and forget the importance of spending time with our loved ones. Making time for each other should always be a priority, as the memories we create and the relationships that grow through the years are well worth the effort.

Life is a fleeting moment, and we never know what the future holds. Our lives are like vapors that exist for a brief time before vanishing away (James 4:14). There’s a distinct possibility that I may never see my sister or brother in Massachusetts again on this earth. Every moment I spend with my husband, son, daughter, grandchildren, and other loved ones, I realize that this might be my last chance to share this life with them. I want them to cherish the memories of my love for them.

Two of the greatest gifts you can share with someone are your time and your faith. When you share your time, you’re giving a part of your life that you’ll never get back. Sharing your faith offers the hope of seeing them again in eternity. 

Memories are never truly lost. If you have negative memories, make an effort to create new, positive ones. Don’t leave those you love struggling to remember the depth of your love for them. Don’t hold onto hurt or bitterness that prevents you from forgiving. You are called to a higher level of love. Freely forgive as Christ has forgiven you. Take the time in this life to cherish those who are God’s gifts to you.