Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another.
—Romans 4:19
This world is filled with distrust, conflict and strife. As Christians, we must make it our purpose to pursue the things that make for peace. This was the instruction that Paul gave to the Romans in Romans 14:19.
This verse begins with “therefore let us.” It’s a command given to every Christian. Paul also wrote in Colossians 3:15: “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace.” As members of the body of Christ we are called to peace. We should pursue peace in all our relationships.
“Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another” (Romans 4:19).
The Greek word in this verse from which “pursue” was derived is “dioko.” It presents two ideas.
The Greek word, “dioko,” was a hunting term, referring to a determined hunter who unceasingly pursues his prey. Since “dioko” is a participle, this word defines an ongoing action. This diligent hunter never gives up until he successfully apprehends the prey he pursues.
The word “dioko” is also often translated “to persecute.” This tells us that this pursuit isn’t accidental. It’s a deliberate, well-thought out plan. Just as a hunter doggedly follows the tracks of his prey, a person who persecutes another does the same. His actions are meant to intentionally hurt another person.
In choosing the word “dioko,” Paul is telling us to deliberately develop and execute a plan that will bring peace with those we are in conflict with. A haphazard attempt will end up failing. Just as a hunter is resolute in capturing his prey, and a person is determined to persecute someone else, you must doggedly follow a plan inspired by the Holy Spirit until you gain peace in that relationship.
Paul also tells us that we are to follow after the things that make for peace. Examples of these things are asking for forgiveness, admitting mistakes, or acknowledging a wrong that inadvertently took place. Pride only breeds strife (Proverbs 13:10). We should speak evil of no one, be peaceable, gentle, and show humility to all men (Titus 3:2).
The Greek word for “peace” in this verse is “eirene.” It’s been translated as tranquility or harmony. To achieve peace in a relationship, conflicts and disagreements must be set aside, and distrust must be overcome. We must diligently pursue peace until our relationships are tranquil and harmonious.
Paul also tells that we are to follow after “the things by which one may edify another.” He commands us to make it our purpose to “edify” one another.
The word “edify” was the Greek word “oikodome,” which described the planning and building process of a house. Paul used this word to describe how we must build our relationships. Random attempts won’t overcome issues. Building strong and peaceful relationships that stand the test of time takes serious prayer and humbly considering the views of every one concerned. Once a Holy Spirit inspired plan is developed, it must be deliberately and intentionally followed.
If we lay down our disagreements and distrust of each other, pursuing peace with each other and doing the things that make for peace, we will build what the Holy Spirit wishes to accomplish in our relationships with each other. He possesses the knowledge and wisdom to bring about peace. He knows precisely what we need to do to “edify” or build relationships effectively with others. We must seek the Holy Spirit for His plan and not turn away from it.
If you have been through a painful experience with another believer, Romans 14:19 commands you to lay down your distrust and disagreement and pursue the things that make for restoration and peace. Instead of tearing down each other, the Holy Spirit wants to reveal His plan to build a strong and peaceful relationship that will last.
If you’re willing to let go of unforgiveness, hurt, distrust, and bad attitudes, and listen to the Holy Spirit, He will provide you with a plan. If you humbly and faithfully pursue His guidance, His plan will achieve peace.
Are you tired of the war? Be intentional in seeking peace. In all humility lay down your weapons and pursue the things that make for peace. This is God’s will for you. If you pursue His will, He will honor your pursuit.
