Have you been hurt or rejected by another person? Does
your heart feel cold and hard when you remember what they have done?
The inability to forgive is a terrible
cancer. It eats at your spiritual health and ultimately destroys your
relationship with God. Because God has given man a free will to choose or reject
Him, you also have a free will to either forgive or not to forgive.
“Do not judge,” Jesus instructs, “and you will not be
judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be
forgiven” (Luke 6:37). Isn’t the inability to forgive really judgment of that
person? Your hurt and your pain does not give you a license to judge that
person. It does not give you a license to be angry and hate.
When you are devastated by someone's action, you
have a choice what to do with the hurt and the bitterness. If you allow that
hurt to define who you are, that pain can immobilize you. You are in bondage to
your pain. The Holy Spirit invites us to acknowledge our pain so we might
forgive. “Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom,” Paul writes (2
Corinthians 3:17). God does not want you in bondage to your hurt. If you know
the Lord, you have the freedom and the power to
forgive.
Recently parents of a murdered girl spoke of forgiving
her murderer. They talked freely about letting the anger go, and wanting to be
free of the burden of being victims. They wanted to move forward and not “go to
prison with him”. They knew they needed to let go of their pain, and surrender
the burden of wanting to get even. They had the freedom to choose either
bitterness or forgiveness. With Christ's power they were able to
forgive.
Are
you tired of your hurt, and your pain? Let it go, and He “will give you a new
heart, and put a new spirit in you, and will remove from you your heart of stone
and give you a heart of flesh” (Ezekiel
36:26).
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