Living My Faith: Knowing Possibilities
In living your faith you face possible discouragement and even
burnout. We have looked at managing our priorities, bible study and
prayer. One of the greatest prerequisites for commitment is to have a
teachable spirit. You can’t grow spiritually if you have all the
answers. You must be open to new experiences in Christ or you become
stale. Not only does your ability to inspire others vanish, but if
you are not willing to learn, decay in your relationship with God is
unavoidable. A leader is someone who others follow you. If you are
a Christian someone is following you. A leader is first of all a
student, and must be teachable.
Develop a positive attitude. Don’t dwell on past failures. “We
know that in all things God works for the good of those who love
him,” Paul advises, “ who have been called
according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28). Allow the promise in
these words to positively affect your attitude. If you have a bad
attitude, others sense it. Your ability to remain encouraging and
optimistic toward ministry diminishes. Not only do you burn out,
those who look to you for guidance fall by the wayside.
Have reasonable expectations on yourself and on others. If those you disciple do not grow immediately, don't be discouraged. A new
Christian, for instance, does not jump from new faith in Jesus to an
immediate ability to apply the Word of God. Patience is required as
people grow in holiness. Any unreasonable expectation places an
unjust burden on both a you and a the person you are discipling.
Expectation becomes an obstacle to growth and both experience
frustration and undue stress. Don’t expect too much too quickly.
Realize that not only are you both human, but that a high goal may
only be found through the accomplishment of smaller reasonable goals.
Be honest when you make a mistake. Forgive yourself and others. “Now
the Lord is the Spirit,” Paul writes, “and where the Spirit of
the Lord is, there is freedom” (II Corinthians 3:17). Be humble
enough to admit when you’re wrong or don’t have an answer.
Trying to be a “perfect” Christian in the eyes of others only
creates disappointment when you make mistakes. Let your mask down. A
willingness to be vulnerable invites vulnerability in others. It
inspires honesty, but, greater still, opens each person’s heart to
the healing presence of the Holy Spirit.
If you fail, forgive yourself. If someone else fails, forgive him
also. Don’t hold on to your failure. Examine it. Realize the
lesson; apply the lesson and then give it to God. Don’t dig it
back up. It’s gone. Forgiveness for your own mistakes and for
those of others is consciously rendered. We decide to move on, and
trust the Lord for the strength with which to accomplish it.
When you allow the Lord to deal with your heart and mind, you have a
teachable spirit. The renewing of your mind creates the ability to
see have reasonable expectations. It creates a forgiving heart that
believes in God's faithfulness. With these kind of qualities stress,
discouragement, and burnout are things that will no longer have the
ability to render you spiritually helpless. Living your faith will be
as natural as breathing.
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