Let your forbearance be known unto all men. The Lord is
at hand.
Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.
Let your
graciousness be known to everyone. The Lord is near.
—Philippians
4:5 ASV, NIV, CSB
You can learn what God looks for in your life by
studying His Word. I love to compare different translations to gain
understanding. In these three different translations of Philippians 4:5, we are
called to exhibit a quality in our lives so that people know to whom we belong.
This quality is translated as forbearance, gentleness, and graciousness in
these three different versions.
Forbearance is “refraining from the enforcement
of something (as a debt, right, or obligation) that is due” (2017
Merriam-Webster). If I have forbearance, I am patient, and have self-control. I
show restraint when I feel that I am right. I refrain from exercising that
right or collecting what is due, because God has called me to have mercy.
Some synonyms for gentleness are mildness,
calmness, and tenderness. If I have gentleness, I am calm when faced with
someone who doesn’t share my point of view. I may know I am right in that
instance, but I have no need to prove it. I know that God takes care of what I
can’t. I know that my attitude in a situation can either speak hope or despair.
If I place someone on the defensive by trying to prove something, then they
come back swinging. They will not listen. Their hearts and minds are closed.
But if I live my faith without accusation or expectation, the Holy Spirit can
encourage life.
Other words for graciousness are diplomacy and
cordiality. Am I courteous? Am I careful in what I say and how I react? Do I
listen with the open ear of the Holy Spirit? Do I extend grace in situations
where none is extended to me? Do I make my life about others instead of
myself? Isn’t that the bottom line? My
life is not my own. I live it for the sake of others—so that in laying down my
rights, they may see the Holy Spirit that guides and empowers my life.
Forbearance, gentleness, and graciousness
translate as Holy Spirit power under His control in my life. I have
self-control when He is in control. I seek these qualities. I choose to add
them, and He empowers my choices. He gives freedom to not prove or claim my
rights. I learn His love that didn’t demand His own. He chose Calvary. I choose
Him.
© 2017 Lynn Lacher
www.lynnlacher.com
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