Then Peter came to him and asked,
“Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven
times?” “No, not seven times,” Jesus
replied, “but seventy times seven!”
—Matthew 18:21-22 NLT
Not everyone deals with unforgiveness
that defines each waking moment, but some people are consumed with it. They can't
offer forgiveness because they haven't allowed the grace of Jesus to transform
their minds and soften their stony hearts. When they refuse to receive God's
grace and forgiveness, they also refuse to give unconditional love and
forgiveness to others. When they can't forgive, they don't have healthy
relationships. They end up in emotional conflicts that tear their lives into
pieces. Life is a vicious cycle filled with hurt and resentment which turn the
heart into stone.
What about you? Are you one of
these people existing in this way? Read the parable of the unmerciful servant
in Matthew 18:23-35, and then consider something perhaps that you had not
considered. The servant in the parable did not understand that his debt was
completely canceled, and in his misunderstanding thought he still had to
collect money from someone who owed him in order to pay it off. What if that
servant had heard his master correctly?
What if the knowledge of his new debt-free state had penetrated his mind
and heart? Joy would have seized him. Peace would have settled fear in his
mind. The exorbitant amount owed to the master could have never been repaid any
way, and that debt weighed constantly upon him. If only that servant had
received the message that the master had wiped his slate clean.
Jesus, your Master, wipes your slate clean, and cancels the debt
that you can never repay. A miracle
happens when the grace of Jesus seeps into the depths of your very being. The
vicious cycle of unforgiveness ends. You are accepted so you accept. You are
forgiven so you forgive. Emotional conflicts that have resulted from hurt are
healed. You don't live with the stony heart of a debt-collector. When you allow
the grace of Jesus to set you free, you are free to give His love away easily
with no reservations. However, those who can’t forgive continue to collect
debts. They refuse the forgiving grace of Jesus. People owe them affection,
love, security and affirmation. Since they are indebted and guilty, they feel unforgiven
and unacceptable. They easily pass on the lack of their own grace.
Has His grace transformed your
heart to the place when you realize that you are debt-free, and you can pass
along that freedom? Or is there someone you resent—someone you can't let off
the hook? Are you willing to accept responsibility for your own life and not
blame anyone else for who you are? Through
the gift of His own son, God offers you freedom from debt. At the cross Jesus took your sin, failures,
and hurts into himself so that you might be free of any debt.
After the death of Jacob, Joseph’s brothers stood before him requesting
forgiveness. Although they had once sold him into slavery, Joseph wasn't
concerned about collecting a debt. He wasn't concerned about what they owed
him. “Don’t be afraid of me,” he said. “Am I God, that
I can punish you? You intended to harm me, but
God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save
the lives of many people” (Genesis 50:19-20, NLT).
Jesus was brought to the position
of the cross so He can give you a new heart. He has torn up your debt. He longs
you to live debt-free. Where you love freely because you are loved! Where you accept because you are
accepted! Where you extend grace because
you have received grace! Where, in freely receiving forgiveness, you freely forgive.
He is your choice.
©2017 Lynn
Lacher
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