It is time that we take responsibility for who we are, what we believe, what we say, and how we act. We are not responsible for circumstances over which we have no control, but we are responsible for what we do or say and how we respond to circumstances, our failures, our mistakes, our problems and life. We are totally responsible for our actions and our reactions.
“Anyone who lives on milk, being still
an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness”
(Hebrews 5:12, NIV). If I never make an effort to get off the bottle and
grow up, then I will remain an infant in my actions and attitudes. But
spiritual growth in Christ is a requirement in my life. It doesn't allow
me to make excuses. It tells me that I must take responsibility for my
bad attitude or any fly-off-the-handle reaction. It means that I should
learn from my failure, and if I am responsible for a problem, to make
every effort to not create that circumstance again. Spiritual maturity
also tells me that the next time I am faced with circumstances either of
my own making or not of my own making, I will react in a mature way
which honors God. To do this I need to have grown spiritually until
knowledge of His will pervades my life. “We continually ask God,” Paul
writes, “to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the
wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives so that you may live a
life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in
every good work, growing in the knowledge of God” Colossians 1:9a-10,
“Bearing fruit in every good work” means that I will live a
life worthy of of the Lord and please Him in every way (Colossians
1:10) It means that my actions and reactions will be controlled by the
Holy Spirit. A life controlled by the Spirit exhibits the fruit of the
Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, and self-control. The only way that I can have the fruit of
the Spirit alive in my life is to allow all the selfishness of myself to
be taken to the grave so I can be raised in newness of life in Christ
(Romans 6:4). When I am willing to be crucified with Him and to make
this selfless journey... when I am willing to accept my responsibility
for all that I am.... when I am realize that without Him I cannot become
my true self...then I have begun the journey to grow deeper in Him.
Have I matured to the point where my actions and reactions are
controlled by Him instead of an unchanged and immature nature? God's
plan for my life is always ahead, but I cannot realize it until I allow
Him to control me with His love and guiding hand. One day we all will
answer to Him for all our actions, interactions, reactions. We will
answer about how we loved, and if we respected each other. I pray that I
will be able to say, “Lord, I have been crucified with you, and you
have lived within me.”
I agree with Paul. “Not that I have
already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I
press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.
Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of
it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward
what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God
has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:12-14, NIV). I
press on toward the goal to which God has called me.
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